I have been dating this guy for 2 years now

And it doesn't look like he is serious about me. He doesn't want to settle down. He said if I get pregnant we will have to abort the baby, please tell me if this is the right guy for me.
I am so confuse right now

^ oh lord.... ammm NO!!! leave and run now... sigh! i still would love to know why some look for love and only wants to waddle where chaos and heart ache resides...
they say its childhood "lack of love and attention"

Ashmini:
When you were a child, did you fall down hard?

how can u possibly think this is the right person for you?!?!
is your head screwed on right?
like Jasmine said run now!!

dont sit around and wait for anyone. why be serious about someone who isnst serious about you? start thinking about yourself!!

and when did Jasmine become American??..

Abort the baby? Is that man sane? 2 years is long enough for him to be crazy about you, obviously he isn't. Stop wasting your time. I am sure that there is someone out there who deserves you.

that girl is paying the price for not going to school or for failing to learn .the guy just want a hole to store his stool until he can find a better one .she is a risk factor for AIDS too ,cause she not using any form of protection .how dumb can she be for not seeing that .DATING DONT MEAN ITS LOVE >SEX DONT MEAN ITS LOVE >so she will pay a price for having UNWANTED SEX

^ u are only assuming she is having sex, unprotected sex, didnt go to school or is dumb...
at some point in time so many of us have loved blindly... she is no different...

U bigan person are forming horrid opinions about someone u dont know...

I am usually at doubt with 1 post with a personal problem.

Let us hope & c if she post more.

The question is how much do u love yourself babygirl? And do u value your self enough to realise that your body is worth more than just a peice of flesh waiting to be devoured by a pack of carnal minded, flesh eating predators. try to consider your values as a respectable woman and make urself strong. treat ur self that way, if u dont then you would become vunerable and frustrated because u will only depend on the complements and flattery from pretensive, selfish wicked people. Hope that helps.

another thing, based on the way we think of ourselves, thats the way we become. You and your partner should consider speaking to someone closest to you, and try to understand the real reason behind his decisions, maybe he has a whole lot of issues affecting his thinkin. only then would u guys know who is right or wrong for each other.

that guy must be young dumb and full ah cum.. what you need to do is get a real man in yo life and stop messing around with thugs..

This man has given you a warning...if you choose not to listen you will surely feel.

Arsenic

Ashmini, when all else fails go to the personals column. There are nice guys over there like Justin, Johnny, Goat etc. Im pretty sure since they all give you good advice here then they will be capable of understanding a woman's emotion once you fling yourself at them in a different place.

Moral of the story. You cannot give advice to two lovers. Simple as that. Things have to take its course. I remember down in GT as a kid there were a neighbor across the road. He was a cool guy and his gf was a nurse. One night all hell break loose and they were fighting like dogs and cats. You can hear the screaming and the tumbling down and breaking of glass and whats not. I thought the man was going to kill that woman so I scramble off my bed and ran across the road to save her life and as I reach across the road there he was riding off on his motor cycle with a speed and she pelting a beer bottle at him. I told her please go back inside and relax and she curse and curse this man out at the top of her lungs. The very next day what I saw shocked me. She was sitting on the back of his bike arms around his waist and they were taking off. See what I mean? You just cannot get between lovers it has to run its course until you hit rock bottom.

Until a woman or man really feel fed up with the situation, nothing will ever change their mind. And outsiders can give all the advice in the world but it would mean shit until reality sinks in. Go ahead and make a baby for him and dont worry about the abortion thing just so you can satisfy yourself he will stick with you and it will make a difference in your lives.

Know what happens next? You are stuck as a single parent minding a baby all on your own because he would refuse to acknowledge it and your life is all screwed up from thereon.

Best advice i can give you.

how bout u ask the guy? that seems like a great idea to me..